The Gemini Woman
Possessing a natural charm and an easy way with words, the Gemini woman is well equipped to successfully take on the challenges of life. This woman can easily adapt to whatever circumstance presents itself and her calm, positive attitude is an irresistible lure to everyone she comes into contact with. She is full of enthusiasm, a vivacious, shining beauty, she can talk about a wide variety of subjects, and she is curious about everything. One minute demure and doting, the next ruthlessly sarcastic. She is witty, quick with one-liners, and will remember the tiniest, most obscure trivia. As alluring as she can be, the Gemini woman is never idle and does present an inconsistency to her nature. Although usually in control of her emotions, she can turn from being the hot, sensual seductress, to cool, and calculating in the blink of an eye.
Gemini women value their friendships and always have new opinions or interesting thoughts to share. They like to keep a light hold on friends because they themselves crave freedom. Gemini is gifted with the wonderful ability to see both sides in any situation. This makes her an excellent mediator. Living with a Gemini Woman can be like living with two different people, for Gemini is capable of thinking two different points of view at the same time. Not only that, but she can believe both of them, and justify that belief as well.
The duality of the Twins requires a light touch and fine balance in relationships. She needs a partner who can keep her entertained and mentally stimulated. Some think that the Gemini woman is a hopeless flirt, but they just don’t understand her essential nature. She enjoys friends of both sexes, and will often have close girl and guy friends, so a jealous, possessive lover just may not be what she needs. Symbolized by the twins flying through the air, to set limits on a Gemini is like trapping a lovely bird in a small cage. It may take time for her to settle down and find the right partner to satisfy both sides of her personality. She wants to be nurtured and catered to; yet her nature also demands independence and movement.
Communication and sharing dreams are important to the Gemini woman. Be prepared to answer a lot of questions regarding your hopes, wishes, and regrets. She likes to delve into her partner’s mind. This is because she cares and she can’t feel close to someone without knowing their innermost thoughts. Her romantic words are spellbound. There is nothing a Gemini woman likes more than a sexy, witty exchange of words. Sex is more than just a physical activity with your Gemini lady – it is also a mental sport. She wants a complete experience, a total stimulation in all the senses – sight, sound, and touch. She wants you to excite her mind and especially, her imagination. She loves a sexy voice. In bed, whisper words and little stories you’ve imagined or read. She is the most verbal of all the signs, and her strong intellect and rich imagination is your surest way to passionate love.
Her idea of Prince Charming isn’t necessarily about being tall, dark and handsome, it’s more about the ability to make her laugh with his witty sense of humor and showing her a bit of his romantic heart. If you’ve made her laugh, you’re golden.
She does not find settling down with a single partner easy, but once that special someone is found, she will be completely devoted to the relationship. Woe betide any who starts getting complacent about winning such a prize, as Gemini needs to grow when she is in love, and the phrase “catching is not the same as keeping” comes to mind when Gemini women are involved. Small, sentimental gestures that keep the romance alive and kicking is what will satisfy your lady.
The Gemini Man
Symbolized by the Twins, a Gemini is both Master Jekyll and Mister Hyde, a mix of suave gentleman and salt-of-the-earth. With his smooth talking ways, the Gemini man is a natural charmer who has no difficulty making friends. This intellectual man can adapt quickly to a constantly changing world and accepts whatever challenges are put before him in a calm, positive manner. His innate charm makes him quite popular and he is never lacking for party invitations.
Being a good listener and possessing sound judgment, friends will often call on him for advice. He can sometimes be logical to the point of being irritating, but his rationalization of an argument does allow him to see both sides of any situation. With his charismatic personality and gift for gab, politics or high-profile sales offer tremendous career opportunity for the Gemini man. He is an excellent communicator and multi-tasks well, but does require a constant challenge in his workload or boredom will affect his performance.
He’s a mutable Air sign, which keeps him in constant flux, happiest in the cooler climate of ideas and intellect, rather than the emotional frying pan. Charming, flirty, and irresistible, he has incredibly high standards and may throw up a smoke screen or act unpredictably to hide his deepest emotions. Although he’s usually in control of his emotions, Gemini is always in conflict with the restless “twins” which can cause him to be alluring one minute and very reserved the next. He isn’t being cold and unemotional; he’s just trying to be logical about it all. Luckily, because he is so good at communicating his thoughts and listening, arguments with him don’t happen very often.
This gentleman is a flirtatious one and enjoys the romantic side of dating and new connections. The adventurous Gemini man enjoys variety and constant stimulation which means that his bedroom behavior will keep a partner continually surprised and always pleased. He is a fun loving and roguish lover, with bold romantic gestures. Playful in the bedroom, sex is an adventure for the Gemini man. More often than not, he will put his companion’s satisfaction before his own and this unselfish trait makes him an ideal lover. Like all the other signs ruled by Air, the way to a Gemini man’s libido is through his mind. Mental games, rapid fire riposte, sexual banter – all these things turn him on more than satin lingerie or candlelight ever will. His has a cerebral kind of sexuality, and he will use all the information at his disposal to please his partner satisfactorily in bed. He is very verbal, and therefore highly oral. Enough said?
The perfect partner for a Gemini man is one who is practical and stable, a partner who is extremely intelligent and secure enough to provide him with plenty of space to roam. He is a generous lover, and seldom possessive or jealous. The intellectual Twin is not always comfortable with the great passions that lie within him which are unleashed when he falls in love. For this reason, the Gemini does not fall in love easily.
He may find it difficult to remain with a single partner, but once he finds that special someone he becomes totally devoted to the relationship. The biggest threat to a relationship with a Gemini is boredom. His partner will have to keep up with his mental gymnastics or risk losing his attention. To stay interested for the long haul, the Gemini man needs a mate who’s interested—in all kinds of stuff—and interesting by default. When (and if) things get routine, ask your Gemini guy a smart question or solicit his opinion about something happening in the news. Thoughts, not emotions, influence him the most, so get him talking about his opinions. And as long as he sees a point to being with you, he’s not likely to go elsewhere—at least, not unless he sees an equally valid point in that!
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