The Sagittarius Woman
Wild, feisty, independent and exciting, Sagittarius is the wild child of the zodiac. There is an ever present need for adventure and a certain degree of wanderlust to these ladies. Their motto is nothing ventured, nothing gained. Sagittarius is the sign of the philosopher and the explorer, they will go as far as the road will, and explore every corner thoroughly in their eternal search for wisdom. Sagittarius seems to be guided by luck. Despite hardships they’re always optimistic; good things will happen tomorrow, and the future carries good fortune. If you lined up twelve people at the top of a cliff, one of each sun sign, the Sagittarian would probably be the first one to jump, content that something, somehow would prevent them going splat at the bottom. And something somehow probably would. She has a bright, cheerful demeanor that can be disarming. It’s no accident that Sagittarius comes after the dark, penetrating and probing personality of Scorpio, and before the contracting nature of Capricorn. Ruled by Jupiter, the key word that describes Sagittarius is “expansion”. This is important because everything a Sagittarius woman does, carries that overture, and seems larger than life. Her sign rules the centaur; half man, half horse, pointing high toward the sky, which symbolizes her quest to reach the lofty goals she’s set. To say she’s an eclectic dresser would be putting it mildly. To slavishly wear what everyone else is wearing is never her thing. She likes pieces she has picked up on her travels – a quilted jacket from Beijing, an embroidered skirt from Turkey, or something that just looks amazing from a backstreet boutique in Paris. The Sagittarian woman is hung up on one thing – freedom. She doesn’t like to have too many possessions, reasoning that too much stuff ends up owning you. But she might sport an ankh, or a strange ring she found in a Hong Kong antique shop. All the better if it’s rumored to be cursed. She does like bags – big ones she can put over her shoulders and pack all her belongings in. It’s an uncomplicated style that invites you to drop your defenses, too, and just “be.” This, coupled with their knowledge of culture, philosophy, and the best ethnic restaurants, make her a much sought after conversationalist. If you ever want your world expanded, talk to your Sagittarian friend.
Sagittarian ladies do not like mind games, it holds them back trying to figure out what is meant. She’s detached from emotions, she’d rather not talk about her feelings, she’ll simply experience them and move on. She wants straightforwardness and expects it in return. She will gladly tell you if your dress is too tight, if you should take that job or if you’re partner is cheating on you. It’s a good thing that these ladies are so joyous because it helps to take some of the sting off of their very honest, often blunt, reactions. Known for saying the ‘painful truth’, loved ones know that they can trust what Sag says, because they always say what is true, and only have your best interest at heart. If you are overly sensitive and don’t really want to know the truth, don’t ask lady Sagittarius for her opinion. Save your feelings and turn to another, more tactful sign instead. Marriage and commitment are giant steps for the Sagittarius woman. Finding her true identity, knowing who she is a very important process for her before taking a leap into commitment. But what happens when she falls in love? She falls darned hard, that’s what. The Sagittarian woman never does anything in a half hearted way. She is all enthusiasm from her head to her toes, and being in love is a great feeling, like a wild roller coaster ride. She does it over and again just to get that buzz again. When she meets The One, it’s New Year’s Eve in New York, and Chinese New Year in Beijing all at once. Self-assured and confident, she is a sensual animal and her sense of adventure usually means your Sagittarius lover is up for anything, at any time! In line with her approach with the rest of life, she enjoys a variety of physical experiences, so a lover who is both artistic and creative would suit her best. Any lover who wants to win her respect in the bedroom will have to be both bold and brainy. The Sagittarius woman can sometimes demonstrate a duality of personality – one minute a flirtatious, irresistible player, the other sedate, and comfortably domestic. Which one is the real Sagittarian? She’s just reflecting the reality of love itself – both the heady, butterflies-in-your-tummy feeling of new love, and the steady, banked, and burning flame of a love that stands the test of time. She is enthusiastic about all new things and her partner must be well-read and well-travelled. Feeling hemmed in or stifled, whether through a situation or a relationship, is not the ideal situation for these ladies. Keep up with your Sag lady on philosophy, the world, exotic lands, and exciting discoveries. She loves companionship and wants a friend and partner who can share her love for truth and knowledge. Relationships with her are often active and spirited, filled with strange and faraway journeys, both metaphorical and literal.
The Sagittarius Man
Ruled by Jupiter, ruler of the Gods, the Sagittarius man has a certain noble bearing. He demonstrates the flair and confidence of a born leader and is both generous and just. Seeking knowledge incessantly, and has a thirst for everything that is new and unknown. An eternal optimistic, he enjoys explorations of life, wherever the path may take him. He is the adventurer of the zodiac, a seeker of truth who wants to discover what life is really all about. Fascinated by everything around him, this open-minded man is quick to explore new and controversial subjects, especially in the areas of religion, morality, and philosophy. Once you get the Sagittarius man started you will find yourself deeply involved in an intellectually stimulating conversation about whatever subject you choose.
Cheerful and trustworthy with a lot of friends – that’s the Sagittarius man. He’s generous and always willing to help friends and family when they need it, but his sometimes reckless character causes him to make commitments he’s unable to fulfill. Ask the Sagittarius man for advice and he’ll give it without hesitation, but his straightforward and honest response may not always be what you want to hear. Don’t ask this man a question unless you’re ready for his answer, he can be tactless.
Sagittarius rules travel and the higher mind, and he’s always expanding his repertoire with books, classes, hobbies, friends, and globe-trotting. Partners may want him to express his affection and dedication more than he does, but the Sagittarius man’s freestyle nature often prevents him from making emotional commitments. Your Sagittarius man likes the bachelor life more than most signs. He must sow his oats before settling into a relationship. Otherwise, he’ll always have one foot out the door, wondering “what if ?”. Once he’s satisfied his adventure quota, the Sag man suddenly grows lonely exploring the world by himself. Out of nowhere, he begins to crave a companion to join his eternal seeking. After tearing through life like a crazed bull in a china shop, he morphs into a serene Buddha figure, floating above the chaos. At this point, the Sagittarius man’s best qualities come out—like wisdom, empathy and generosity. He’s able to put his full focus on a partner. Your relationship and shared life become his new adventure. When it comes to the game of love, the Archer never misses his target. He is playful, flirtatious, and always in control. He is one of the most attentive and skilled lovers in the zodiac. He makes everyday life romantic with all the small things he does that show just how thoughtful and considerate a lover he is. Fun, spontaneous, and fiery in bed, a Sagittarius man is an accomplished lover. His own straightforward nature appreciates a partner with the bravery to make the first move. Physicality is very important to him. He is self-assured and open-minded, which means that there is very little in terms of venue, position, or accessories that your Archer will not be willing to try out. The more things you do in the great outdoors, the better, as he likes to be in expansive space. If the weather is warm, seduce him out in the wide open spaces, in a private, lush and green setting, under the full moon and stars.